Background
Love, Young Hollywood – The Female View.
Outline
- Big Title
- Young Starlet
Big Title
It is a big title.
But, I am trying to make a series on Love and our ecosystem.
Young Starlet
About a young girl, let us call her a young starlet.
BTW, just now found out what a starlet is.
Starlet:-
A young movie actress being coached and publicized for starring roles.
So our young starlet finds love.
She posts about it and God “why she do that“.
Everybody and their mama have something to say.
Likes and Dislikes
There are likes and dislikes.
Comments
And, I suppose comments.
If you ask me, many comments are unnecessary.
They say more about the commenter than the original topic.
They are a bit one-sided in the following ways:-
- Speak to the commenters fears
- His/her prejudices
- Struggles through life
- Long Journey in a faraway land
- Double Faults
Fears
We all have fears.
And, as such, it is important to speak of them well.
Speak of them responsibly.
Write them down well.
Over and Over again.
And, in so doing our language and its texture can be more cultured and nuance.
Prejudices
The same goes for prejudices.
It is human to be prejudicial.
Some are stronger, wider, more irresponsible, and weightier than others.
In the case of our subject matter let us cover them.
Stronger
Certain kind of love relationships does not fit our traditional norms.
And, for that reason, we feel we are on safe grounds to rebuke it.
Rebuke it, if you must, but I think you can use gentle words.
Wider
In some instances our words are wide.
We sometimes lurch widely without the gratitude of specificity.
Irresponsibly
With these comments, we do not take responsibility for ourselves nor the person we are directing it towards.
Often we lack proximity to the person we are commenting on.
And, as such, our help lacks stewarding mobility towards actual application.
Absent this vehicle, it ends up being a bit more gossip and chatty.
Weightier
In other cases, it does not stop at words.
We want actions. We want someone to lose their livelihood.
They betrayed some cherished trust in choosing love.
Struggle
Each of us struggles through life.
It is the rent for our existence.
Unfortunately, because someone chose love and whom to share it with.
We say you must have a lot of free time on your hands.
Let us talk about it.
Incline your ears to my doubt.
Unbeknown to us the one in love has so much of their own problems, as is.
They are disinclined to be our context and psychological toolbox.
Long Journey in a faraway land
If facts be told, we are all living in a faraway land.
Keeping in mind that we are living in a faraway land, we have to live and travel light.
Not act as custodians and guardians of all the rules and principles, but someone who is looking and hoping to help others travel.
Imagine it is an airport and not a home.
Double Faulted
I have double-faulted, triple faulted, quadrupled faulted many times.
And, shameless and slavishly in need of compassion and generosity in hope, grace, and prayers.
Amen.
Words
Florence Pugh
Abuse
2020-April-8th
I would never in my life — ever, ever — tell anyone who they can or cannot love. It is not your place. And really, it has nothing to do with you
The abuse you throw at him is the abuse you are throwing at me.
The world is aching, the word is dying.
And, a few of you decides to be a bully.
If those rules are something you do not like, then please unfollow me.
I can keep on cooking, dancing, and singing.
Ariana Grande
Sharing Special & Personal
2020-April-8th
Grande praised Pugh for her statement and wrote that it resonated deeply with her because of her own experience sharing her life online. “Sharing special, personal life things that make u happy on the internet can be truly traumatic,” Grande said. “I know I’ve taken a step back from doing so to protect my loved ones and myself but I just wanted to share this and let u know how perfectly u expressed this and how appreciated u are for doing so @florencepugh.”
Voices
Florence Pugh
On Relationship with Zach Braff.
2020-April-8th
Learning in the Open 